By Simon
Long time ago when God created the earth, he made Adam. God saw that man should not be alone. He told Adam to fall asleep and to his side, God created Eve as a “Help Mate” (Helpmate means companion) for him. Then Adam and Eve became the parents of all living. Therefore, God created only two genders Man and Woman. Woman was created as a “Help Mate” not a “Help Maid”. Each have their own purposes, and they are equal in the sight of God. Adam's own sweat shall eat all the days in their lives. While Eve will carry and nourish their children. God didn't told Eve to do all the house chores while Adam only do his job on the field and relax at home feel like a king. (Which all men does and believe in.) It became a world tradition, were men are greater than woman because they are weak, only deserve to stay at home, and submitt their lives to their husband.
Because of these tradition, culture and belief about the level of treatment for both men and women. Many domestic violence accurs because of this views, it passes through generations to generations. Is this a punishment given to Eve when she ate the forbidden fruit? It seems that this punishment became abusive, it would be unfair to the daugther of Eve. Because of this manner, it creates series of chain of situations that made this issue very complex and sensitive.
For me, man and woman are equal. God created us in his own image with distinctive purposes. He gave us strengths and weaknesses that made us unique to other people. I don't agree in man's culture, tradition and belief that women are only for bed, slave and possession. Women are also like men with own dignity and soul, without these women who will bare your children? Who will carry your son? Yes they are not physically strong but they are mentally mature and wiser than man, they are more humane than man. If man can kill, woman can produce a new life. They are the light of this world, the one who can help us in our success. I believe in the saying. “In every man's success, there's a woman.” They are long suffering, meek and gentle, but they have a very cunning intelligence that no man can surpass except God. Man's duty is to provide nesseccities for his family, a foundation of security and peace. That's why men are physically stronger than woman. Men can't endure mental and emotional challenges than woman, in a little difficulty men give up and pass it to woman. Lastly I believe that one purpose why we are here in this world, is to experience how to build and nourish a family like what gods do. Why we born with a mother? Why it need a man for a woman to get pregnant? Is there any sense with that? We are more advance than any other animals in this world. But look at these animals, they never descriminate their woman but they give respect and never abuse them. They are equal, each creatures know their own purposes.
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